“The people who are best at self control are those that don’t have to use it much.”

This is from James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits. Love it 👌

He talks about not having to rely on feelings to get things done, including exercise .

It’s impossible to always feel motivated.

And if we relied on whether we felt like it to do things, I’m sure a lot of things would not get done!

Things that can help us get out the door 🚪 (which is often the hardest part!)

➡️ Having a plan – if it’s in the diary, there’s no need to think when am I going to do it

➡️ What’s the alternative – when I’m not feeling it, I have a little conversation with myself; Yes I could lie in bed a bit longer or stay on the sofa but then how would I feel? And wouldn’t I just not get bored in 15 mins anyway and wish I’d gone?!

➡️ Remove the barriers – this may mean having your kit ready to put on the next morning or not returning home after school run/work – just go straight out before you get distracted or decide you’re too tired!

➡️ Think bigger picture – remind yourself why you’re doing it

➡️ Arrange to go with a friend or have a coach – preferably both! It really helps when you have that sense of commitment

You never regret exercising, only regret not doing it! 😏

If we’re relying on always feeling motivated or in the mood in order to take action to change things, things may or may not happen 🤦‍♀️

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